Like you'd stop feeling the same way about the guy you loved just because he burst at you the day he heard his 16 year old pet was dying, nd wanted to talk to you in person because you are the sole being in the whole entire universe whom he can be happy with, and talk about his deepest darkest fears without being judged.
He talks really rudely. Tells u shit like he's only there because he's the convenient option to hang with do if you bunk college, more hurt full shit like that.
Yeah maybe he said all that because he wanted you to realise how badly he was hurting. Maybe it wasn't about not trusting you. Maybe it was just all bout him. The parts that you've not been paying attention to.
Maybe on the inside he's just a little fucking kid, no More mature than a pup, just begging for attention. Maybe. Just maybe. He's doing all this because he misses how things used to be.
And maybe for once give him the benefit of the doubt that he can feel too and his dogs death isn't something super light that he'd jus be able to handle without you by his side.
And not decide to make it all about you instead. Blindside his feelings. Call him a lier. Tell him he doesn't know how to trust. And be all defensive about all the fun you want to have with your new friend.
Yeah hes Got friends too. Ones who he'd go on trips with. But not one minute goes by without him missing you by his side. He's gonna naturally be jealous of some random dude mooching off of all of your precious potential memories with her.
Okay! yes! I do get that a Girls gotta have fun too.
She needs her space. She's gonna get it.
Its only that sometimes, your guy has some thoughts too, some dreams that he dreams of living with you.
Hes not all selfish and self centered that he only wants you to give him your undivided attention. If he wanted that then hed get a dog. He has a dog, rather had two.
If all he needed was a dog. He'd never have fallen in love with a girl. Doing all the things he dose, taking all the risks he takes. Just for some seconds of escaping reality with you. Because to him, you are the whole entire world, and maybe him to you. (At least he thinks so.)
If all he wanted was cheap sex and occasional flings, he can manipulate every single girl throwing herself at him. But no he sticks to you instead, because he knows what's real and what's not.
Though the rest of Reality is only what we see it to be. A relationship is what we feel, it's a complex fucking emotion that Can fuck up or make your day way fucking better, even if the world is ending, you'd rather smile .
Hes fighting to make things work, so bad. Your opinion, he's just being clingy and overly attached, or being a hopeless romantic whose blinded by emotions or some childish whims.
You're wrong. He fights because he knows this is worth it. He fights because he's not the kind of a guy who wants meaningless flings. Because the way he felt about you, around you, still dose. That means something to him. Because no real relationships exists without fights, and it's all about getting through them, facing problems as they come, not running away, you were the one who thought me how to do that. But he can't hold on any longer if you push him away. Why ask him to stay if you only wanna push him away indirectly later?
Also maybe give him a benefit of the doubt, because when you broke it off with him saying you were scared things would end like how things did between him and his ex, feeling like he'd jump from this relationship to another, which in your option was what he did.
He gave you the benefits of the doubt. He didn't chalk it off to distrust. He forgave and made sure we get to work things out, and get back together.
